If a bag of grapes is clearly labeled “pre-washed” or “ready-to-eat,” food-safety guidance says they generally do not need to be washed again before eating. The FDA specifically states that packaged produce carrying those labels can be used without further washing, and CDC guidance says the same. That means your child eating properly labeled pre-washed grapes straight from the bag is not automatically doing anything wrong.
There is an important distinction, though. Not every bag of grapes is pre-washed simply because it comes packaged. If the label does not say pre-washed or ready-to-eat, fresh grapes should be rinsed thoroughly under clean running water before eating. Washing helps remove dirt and can reduce bacteria on the surface, although it cannot eliminate every microorganism that might be present. The FDA also recommends keeping produce away from raw meat and other possible sources of cross-contamination.